Not so much okay as controlling. I think it's best to take people as they are and not try to change them. Or you can just leave them alone. Avoid them completely. I mean some... moreNot so much okay as controlling. I think it's best to take people as they are and not try to change them. Or you can just leave them alone. Avoid them completely. I mean sometimes you wish they weren't what they are or whom they are but they also wish that very same thing about you too. So we are what we are and whom we are and either we accept that or we can be hermits or worst case we can find someone exactly like us and live without growing or stretching the rest of our lives. If people don't "obey" us or do what we require to like them better maybe we just aren't people persons. I dunno.Who really likes someone who is dissatisfied with the way you are and keeps trying to change you? Doesn't that become boring and tiresome and tedious very quickly and make you lose interest? So he/she says/does some things you'd rather they didn't do too. Do you have a list of dealbreakers? Is it extensive? Is everything you don't like a dealbreaker? SIGH. less
You walk different roads/paths until you find the one that is most pleasing. You try on different clothes until you find the ones that fit. What makes sense to you may not be what ... moreYou walk different roads/paths until you find the one that is most pleasing. You try on different clothes until you find the ones that fit. What makes sense to you may not be what makes sense to me. That is called variety and it's a good thing. What's not good is when we go to war to make "the other" conform to what we believe and like and wish and prefer and want. Why do people do that when it is always doomed to fail?
Allegedly in bed with 32 other expected indictees? I know the john of don is a "frisky" or so we're told but 32 others in bed? If truly true and not falsely false that I would like... moreAllegedly in bed with 32 other expected indictees? I know the john of don is a "frisky" or so we're told but 32 others in bed? If truly true and not falsely false that I would like to see. Normally I am NOT a voyeur but I would make an exception for the john of don in such a bedly intimacy! Wouldn't thee?
