I've noticed a running theme on dating sites where people seem to want to date someone who is into all of the same things that they are.They seem to want someone who thinks like th... moreI've noticed a running theme on dating sites where people seem to want to date someone who is into all of the same things that they are.They seem to want someone who thinks like they do as well. Is that the recipe for happiness?Wouldn't you rather find someone completely different who can teach you new things and possibly help you to grow?Wouldn't it be more exciting to date a totally different kind of person or is there a certain intimacy that can only be achieved with a person who gets you in every way? less