If it were up to me, I'd have those eight ancient Greek words for it revived:
Eros - romantic, passionate, erotic, sexual
Philia - affectionate, fraternal, between friends and equals,
Agape - selfless, universal, empathic, altruistic, ethical
Storge - familiar, the old oxytocin feeling for someone who fits like an old sock
Mania - obsessive for anyone or anything, a kind of madness
Ludus - playful
Pragma - enduring love, only known when you get there
Philautia - for self, necessary for healthy functioning, but unhealthy in excess.
But then we'd need still more words for moments when we say we "love" ice-cream or Vivaldi.
So I have my own way of defining love:
"love is that which consciously cares for the well-being of life."
But how accurate is it?
The word love in my definition could just as easily be substituted for wisdom or goodness.
So have I understood the essence of love or not?
When I say "life", I mean any plant, animal or human,
both close to me in time and place
and everywhere on the planet.
In a way, I include even the worms, bacteria and fungi that create nutrients in the soil.
What do you think, friends? What is love for you?
Countless thinkers have pondered the meaning of love in its many forms and aspects, but few have, to my knowledge, been able to render a single. encompassing definition.
Love, to my mind, is the superlative term we most apply to advanced states of affection, devotion, favor, respect and altruism.
Love makes the world go ‘round. Love is blind. Love knows no bounds. Love is the greatest gift. Love is the beauty of the soul. All you need is love.
In all of its poetic incantations, love conveys a perfection of relationship. IMHO
I think we could make an argument that the word “love“ is sometimes used to unduly ennoble conditions that may be more effectively described in other terms. Maybe for lack of a broader vocabulary.
As is the case with human passions, the terms we use to articulate them are also subjective. But I would add, not without merit. :)