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What three things can a person do to interest a potential mate to go out with them?

Posted - June 11, 2017

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  • 745
    it only takes one method and it's very effective.. ;D

    https://youtu.be/w1XOfHax6Q8
      June 11, 2017 12:49 AM MDT
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  • 23543
    That surprised me!! Oh, my!

    I don't even have one but if a guy looked like him, the line would work for me, too.
    :) This post was edited by WelbyQuentin at June 18, 2017 7:09 PM MDT
      June 11, 2017 1:56 PM MDT
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  • -have good humour 
    -have a bigger bank account than me 
    - look like Lenny Kravitz.

    1... 2....3 should be simple , aye ? It's not :)
      June 11, 2017 12:53 AM MDT
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  • 6477
    Aww see I approach this from an entirely different angle.. IF you have to actively go out of your way, pretend, boost or whatever to attract a mate/date.. then it's not worth it.. he/she is probably liking you for the wrong reasons and it's based on falsehood.. Better that they are attracted to us for who and how we are than for some false idea or a heavily padded bra :P
      June 11, 2017 2:20 AM MDT
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  • 16732
    Be tall.
    Be dark.
    Be handsome.

    Three things that I'm not :-(
      June 11, 2017 2:47 AM MDT
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    682
    Be affable
    Be a nice
    Ask them out
      June 11, 2017 3:34 AM MDT
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  • 44583
    Flash a big wad of cash.
    Tell her you have a steady, well paying job.
    Tell her you have great health insurance.
      June 11, 2017 10:53 AM MDT
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  • 13071
    HAHAHAHAHAH Good ones Element 99 ;)
      June 11, 2017 10:12 PM MDT
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  • 7939
    TBH, I don't like generic questions like this because it perpetuates the myth that there's a certain formula or a way people have to be. If you have to entice someone to go out with you, you're doing it wrong. Sure, we all appreciate things like good hygiene, but that's mostly where it stops. Be you. Be authentic. The "right" person will see who you are and will want to go out with you because they see bits of them in you- they're looking for similarities first. Then, they're looking for complimentary behaviors. If you aren't authentic from the start, you can't hope to create anything real.
      June 11, 2017 1:50 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    It would depend on the person you are trying to impress.   

    Taking a bath or shower has got to be up there though.
      June 11, 2017 2:05 PM MDT
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  • 2515
    Chances are, if you are close to picking your mate, you don't need to do anything you haven't already done. This post was edited by Marguerite, the Beloved at June 11, 2017 10:11 PM MDT
      June 11, 2017 2:12 PM MDT
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  • 22891
    maybe flirting with them
      June 11, 2017 4:57 PM MDT
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  • 3523
    Have great skills
    Do something great
    Smile a lot
      June 11, 2017 8:01 PM MDT
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