Funny you asked that -- in my case, I'm usually "crying" over imagined "hurts " or insults I've caused people and these same people then say they were not hurt or insulted at all by me. I come to my senses when I realize I've not put anyone down.
This post was edited by WelbyQuentin at February 14, 2018 9:02 AM MST
No worries, CosmicWunderkind! I edited my answer back to its original state.
After I posted my update, I figured somehow my answer simply got switched to a different question of yours - - one that interests me, too! About Robert Wagner.
I used to do a lot of that. Somehow it had to be my fault, no matter how absurd. Some major life changes cured some of that. The fact we worry about ourselves to that level shows we DO care a lot about people and probably have done little to cause any purposeful hurt.
Good point. Your answer makes sense to me. I can perhaps benefit to remember your point in the future a bit because I do know I don't try to intentionally hurt anyone.
This post was edited by WelbyQuentin at February 14, 2018 9:45 PM MST
I have had more than one moment of having my cry and then deciding to cut people out of my life. At my age, you don't waste time on people that aren't part of your well being.
It's very hard to do, but necessary. Some people will go all their lives looking for others to blame for their pain. I wish I had that power to help them, but I don't. Took so long to understand that.
Being as I'm a doctor for obesity nurse ,I've had to put a lot of patients down....... I'm quite petite and not very strong and these people are far to heavy for me to lift on my own......:(
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