When you have been wronged, do you ever seek revenge?
I don't. I feel the most empowered when I have some sense of forgiveness; even if it means I choose to not have contact with someone again. How about you?
The results of revenge when we are young is usually minimal---like hiding a hairbrush. (Unless of course you shoot your sister in the back of the head over a video game.)
That's one reason that children should be allowed to (sometimes with assistance) work out the human concepts of revenge and fairness and boundaries.
There was one time when I was 4 or 5 when I bit my sister because she took my book. I got in huge trouble for that so learned to just be more subtle about my revenge and just do things that would mildly annoy the target.
When I was about 5 or 6, I picked up a rock and threw it at my brother. I had had it with his teasing. I had no idea it would make contact. I got him right on the forehead. So he immediately came at me, pulling my long hair. My mother only saw him hurting me, so she came out with a broom to whack him. Hahahahaha. Oh, I got in so much trouble and I did feel guilty. He needed a few stitches too.