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Do you do feel flared in anger because somebody can't understand the crisis you have been through?

Posted - August 20, 2018

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  • 6098
    No of course not.  Why would I even expect others to understand anything I have been through?  They have their own lives and their own crises to go through. 
      August 20, 2018 4:38 AM MDT
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  • 23572
    Yes, that is true.
      August 20, 2018 7:46 AM MDT
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  • 23572
    No, not anger. Sometimes I feel frustrated in my attempts to adequately explain to others "who want to know/care" actually what I seem to be going through at times. And then that reaching out to others, then doesn't always help so much because I've failed to relate the best words.
      August 20, 2018 7:49 AM MDT
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  • 7792
    The story of my life. I guess they figured that my problems aren't serious enough to even be thought about. This post was edited by Zack at August 23, 2018 6:20 AM MDT
      August 20, 2018 7:52 AM MDT
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  • 10052
    I'm definitely annoyed by those who lack the ability to empathize. Sometimes that annoyance borders on anger. 
      August 20, 2018 9:20 AM MDT
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  • 13071
    I dont do Feal Fear in Anger. 
      August 20, 2018 10:34 AM MDT
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  • Not at all. Unless they've been there, I don't expect them to know or understand the crisis.
      August 20, 2018 10:47 AM MDT
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  • 6477
    No. As others have eloquently said, I cannot expect others to know how it feels.. Like others too, however, I have felt frustration.. especially when my worries, my experiences are dismissed - such as when someone says, 'it will be ok' = that annoys me.. Who said it will be ok, how do you know.. you don't.. lol. 
      August 20, 2018 1:42 PM MDT
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  • 10026
    I am hurt if they won't or don't care enough about me or a situation I may be encountering and having trouble with solving.
    But, if they don't have the time or want to hear it, I can't make them. 
    I don't feel anger.  Mostly disappointment or hurt.
      August 22, 2018 1:27 AM MDT
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  • 10026
    Thank you CosmicWunderkund.  You made me feel Happy! Happy! For the AP.  The exact opposite of hurt or disappointment... Yippppeeeee!! :) :)
      August 23, 2018 10:07 AM MDT
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  • I'm happy they can't. 
      August 22, 2018 1:27 PM MDT
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  • 2706
    No, not at all. :)
      August 23, 2018 5:45 AM MDT
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  • 22891
    not yet
      September 9, 2018 4:44 PM MDT
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