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Ok. Brutal honestly only: (If you can muster it) IF your significant other suddenly in front of your eyes turned into the opposite gender..

.... WELL... 

Would you turn into a gay and stick around?  Or would you turn into a straight and stick around? 

Posted - September 17, 2019
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  • 11102
    Well I would stick around but I would cut her off. Cheers!

      September 17, 2019 6:47 PM MDT
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  • 13395
    I might stick around if she didn't become too hairy ..if he was ok with that.
      September 17, 2019 7:43 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Asker's Pick II
      September 18, 2019 12:20 PM MDT
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  • 13395
    Thank you! 
      September 18, 2019 1:01 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Asker's Pick II
      September 18, 2019 12:21 PM MDT
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  • 13395
    wow!
      September 18, 2019 1:00 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Asker's Pick II
      September 18, 2019 12:21 PM MDT
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  • 13395
    ???
      September 18, 2019 1:02 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Asker's Pick II
      September 18, 2019 12:21 PM MDT
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  • 13395
    Asper's kick  ha ha i'm getting tongue-tied.
      September 18, 2019 1:04 PM MDT
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  • 23574
    I might stick around because I assume I loved my significant other by this point.

    But my significant other would also know that I have never been physically attracted to a female. And Now-A-She will have to understand and realize that I will look to another male for physical intimacy.

    So, no -- I would not turn straight. Or even pretend. I can't turn into something I am not.
    :)
      September 17, 2019 10:48 PM MDT
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  • Indeed, Welby.  Never try to be something that you are not,
    because what you are right now is already a perfect you.
      September 18, 2019 1:00 PM MDT
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  • 23574
    Thank you very much, Dink del Diablo.
    :)
      September 18, 2019 8:41 PM MDT
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  • 17592
    The relationship would change to a platonic friendship.  Immediately.
      September 17, 2019 10:50 PM MDT
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  • 23574
    You said it better than I.
    :)
      September 17, 2019 10:54 PM MDT
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  • 17592
    You tend to give details, that's all.  It's not that I said it better; we said the same thing.  :)  What I didn't say is how sad I would be to lose that part of us.
      September 17, 2019 10:57 PM MDT
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  • 23574
    Yes. Definitely, that loss part and sadness.
    :)
      September 17, 2019 10:59 PM MDT
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  • 10026
    I like the fact you say it perfectly just as Thriftymaid would say it.  
    It is the TRUE beauty in different people and different styles.  If we all wrote and expressed ourselves the same, it would make for a VERY dull and boring conversation.  The world would be so general, we wouldn't need conversations.  That's too frightening to even think about. ;) :)
      September 18, 2019 11:17 AM MDT
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  • 10026
    I like your details.  You said it just perfectly as WelbyQuentin would say it.
    :) :)
      September 18, 2019 11:14 AM MDT
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  • 23574
    Thanks, Merlin!
    :)
      September 18, 2019 12:16 PM MDT
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  • 14795
    I'd surggest a visit to the opticians and to cut down on what they drink...:)  
      September 18, 2019 2:49 AM MDT
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  • 6023
    I'll probably catch flack for this, but ...

    Anybody who says their relationship wouldn't continue the same, doesn't really love their significant other.
    Their main attraction to the person is purely physical.
      September 18, 2019 7:42 AM MDT
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  • 10026
    No flack.  It is an observation you've made and is worthy of saying.  Every thought is important, I think, to any conversation. This post was edited by Merlin at September 18, 2019 12:56 PM MDT
      September 18, 2019 11:19 AM MDT
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  • 23574

    That's sort of where I started with my thoughts, too; that I loved him already. And, like you said, that, indeed, is of prime importance.
    But, possibly because I've not been blessed to ever have been in a long term love significant other relationship as of yet, I also know where my very strong physical attraction desires are, and they're not female at all. And physical attraction is also, to me, of primary importance in a relationship, an issue to indeed deal with in a significant other relationship.

    But I definitely hear you. No flack from me.
    :)

      September 18, 2019 12:11 PM MDT
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