Not really. I mean when she told she is Bi but strongly prefers women. That indicates to me that she is gay because I always assumed Bi means both way equally but it never is. You are always gonna prefer one gender more to another.
Doubt it. Banning something because a group abused their right and caused terrorism doesn't fix it. The tools of destruction are powerless til a person wields it.
I think abusive relationships are often a betrayal of character that they originally fall for but later find out the real them. It's like a addiction of a drug that is bad for you but in a psychical from.