I used to take time to really get good lighting and take the best pictures, but I wonder if that's a bad idea.I feel like maybe posting a really crappy picture and just being a nic... moreI used to take time to really get good lighting and take the best pictures, but I wonder if that's a bad idea.I feel like maybe posting a really crappy picture and just being a nice guy is the way to go.Then when you meet she can be pleasantly surprised rather than possibility disappointed.Or I might just post a crazy, psycho looking picture and see what that attracts?Do you post the BEST possible pictures of yourself online?What do you think?
I was just reading a woman's online profile.I was kind of taken aback by how many indicators or red flags I saw in her description of herself that were things I now try to personal... moreI was just reading a woman's online profile.I was kind of taken aback by how many indicators or red flags I saw in her description of herself that were things I now try to personally avoid.Not that she's a bad person.I just know that it would be bad for me.She had many, many selfies to start withShe said that she works shiftsShe said that she is basically obsessed with animalsShe said that she's bossyShe said that she wants to travelShe said that she has a child and any man who she is with would become an "Insta-dad."Personally I've been through all of that.I am not going to watch her child and feed her animals while she works ridiculous shifts and sleeps all day and bosses me around.Then spends all of our money on trips.I was amazed at how completely incompatible I would be with her.Have you ever met anyone completely incompatible with you? less
I've noticed a running theme on dating sites where people seem to want to date someone who is into all of the same things that they are.They seem to want someone who thinks like th... moreI've noticed a running theme on dating sites where people seem to want to date someone who is into all of the same things that they are.They seem to want someone who thinks like they do as well. Is that the recipe for happiness?Wouldn't you rather find someone completely different who can teach you new things and possibly help you to grow?Wouldn't it be more exciting to date a totally different kind of person or is there a certain intimacy that can only be achieved with a person who gets you in every way? less
We're all somewhere on the scale, and our lives are massively affected by how we relate.It kind of determines how we work best, how many friends we have, the nature and depth of th... moreWe're all somewhere on the scale, and our lives are massively affected by how we relate.It kind of determines how we work best, how many friends we have, the nature and depth of those friendships, how we engage in conversations and what kinds we like best.
Where we are on the scale is not good or bad - it just is.But knowing these things about one another, not just on aM, can make a positive difference.What do you think?
I do like wearing unused plastic garbage, trash, bin bag/liners as clothing. But does that make me too weird to be dating material. Why do you think this and would you ... moreI do like wearing unused plastic garbage, trash, bin bag/liners as clothing. But does that make me too weird to be dating material. Why do you think this and would you ever date me if you're still single.
If you suddenly one morning forgot that you had a partner, and that same day you were out and your partner approached you and asked you out, do you think that you would find ... moreIf you suddenly one morning forgot that you had a partner, and that same day you were out and your partner approached you and asked you out, do you think that you would find him/her attractive again? And would you say yes or no? If you said yes and started dating him/her, do you think that you would fall in love with him/her again?
I see a lot of people online that work shifts and some have 2 jobs and kids.They also like to travel.Then they say "I'm looking for a relationship and I could possibly make time fo... moreI see a lot of people online that work shifts and some have 2 jobs and kids.They also like to travel.Then they say "I'm looking for a relationship and I could possibly make time for the right person."I think that's a lot to manage and I wonder if they even have time for a relationship.Do you have time in your life for a real relationship or would you just occasionally schedule in an appointment for your love life?
