My brother has been married to his wife for the past 3 years but I'm kinda of bothered by it. Not that he's married but his wife is transgender it kinda confusing to me. I don't kn... moreMy brother has been married to his wife for the past 3 years but I'm kinda of bothered by it. Not that he's married but his wife is transgender it kinda confusing to me. I don't know whether to call her him or her or whatever since she used to be a man. I guess he/she has been suffering from they're gender identity since they were 12-13. He/she is now 22 when she was an adult and was old enough she came out as transgender. What's wrong with me ? Why am I so bothered by it ?