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Benedict Arnold

How do you reconcile yourself with the things that you've done?

Posted - April 27, 2020
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  • 14795
    With just a suttle secret smile.... :)
      April 27, 2020 4:00 PM MDT
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  • 5391
    What’s done is done. Take lessons from it, adjust behaviors accordingly and move forward with living my best life. 
      April 27, 2020 4:14 PM MDT
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  • 2138
    The blithering insanity of life.
      April 27, 2020 4:28 PM MDT
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  • 5391

    If you say so, partner.

    Life is either what you worked to make it, or what you didn’t. 

      April 27, 2020 4:49 PM MDT
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  • 13395
    Comedy of life' although it is not always funny 
      April 27, 2020 4:19 PM MDT
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  • 2138
    That is called tragicomedy. Regret is hellish and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. If you're not in jail or feel like you should be in jail consider yourself lucky. What bothers me is people who throw themselves into instant elevation and bad mouth people. You don't know. Regret to me: disappointed over (something that has happened or been done, especially a loss or missed opportunity) This post was edited by CosmicWunderkind at April 29, 2020 6:44 AM MDT
      April 27, 2020 4:27 PM MDT
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  • Some regret will never go away.
      April 29, 2020 6:45 AM MDT
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  • 2138
    So, you say but there is always some terrible attached? Well, remember this, every bad experience you have been through has made you the person you are now and how creative you are with what's left. Did I guess another mess? This post was edited by CosmicWunderkind at April 29, 2020 7:52 AM MDT
      April 29, 2020 7:42 AM MDT
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  • 7795
    I don't. I push that stuff into the back of my mind until it festers into a mental illness 
      April 27, 2020 4:44 PM MDT
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  • 8214
    Ouch! 
      April 27, 2020 5:24 PM MDT
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  • 11162
    30 years ago I put  the ghosts of all the bad things I done in a paper bag then buried themy  in a long long grave. After that I was able to start a fresh life with nothing to haunt  me. Cheers!
      April 27, 2020 5:10 PM MDT
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  • 53528

    By reminding myself that they enjoyed it even more than I did. 


    ~
      April 27, 2020 5:42 PM MDT
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  • 4624
    When I make a mistake, I do what it takes to repair the damage and make amends,
    learn from it and avoid making the same mistake again.

    For me, that's enough to be at peace with myself.


    This post was edited by inky at April 28, 2020 7:22 PM MDT
      April 28, 2020 12:41 AM MDT
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  • Sounds easy enough.
      April 28, 2020 7:22 PM MDT
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  • 19937
    I have never done anything so awful that I was not able to admit my mistake and move on.  Guilt is a useless emotion.  You learn from what you think you did wrong and try to do better going forward.
      April 28, 2020 10:53 AM MDT
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