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Looks or personality? What would you look for in a romance?

Posted - February 11, 2017

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  • 6124
      February 11, 2017 4:26 PM MST
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  • 2658
    Yep..(lol)  I started to post this one Harry.
      February 11, 2017 8:17 PM MST
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  • 6124
    Thanks for posting that Beans!  I've always loved that song!
      February 12, 2017 5:35 AM MST
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  • Personality is a must! He could be "easy on the eyes" but without a personality, I might as well be by myself! 
      February 11, 2017 2:09 PM MST
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  • Absolutely! You're a woman of distinction, Angela. :)
      February 11, 2017 2:12 PM MST
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  • Why thank you! :)
      February 11, 2017 2:16 PM MST
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  • 17261
    With the right personality they will look beautiful in my eyes. Looking good however won't make me find their personality beautiful, necessarily. Hmm. This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at February 13, 2017 7:50 PM MST
      February 11, 2017 2:19 PM MST
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  • 154
    Definitely personality!
      February 11, 2017 2:22 PM MST
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  • 2219
    Defo personality, looks can be deceptive. 

    Don't judge a book by its cover. 
    This post was edited by Malizz at February 13, 2017 7:50 PM MST
      February 11, 2017 2:24 PM MST
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  • Maybe.  Twenty-some years ago I self-published a book and sold it at bookshops all around the country as I travelled. Often the owners didn't know the subject but bought it because I'd had the cover professionally designed and they knew that people would buy for that alone. 

    That doesn't make you wrong, of course.
      February 11, 2017 4:48 PM MST
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  • 53509
    Yes. 
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      February 11, 2017 2:52 PM MST
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  • You're an easy man to please, Randy. Would she need to have her own supply of tildes?
      February 11, 2017 10:45 PM MST
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  • 53509
    Not just any ol' tildes; top-of-the-line is all I'll accept. 
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      February 12, 2017 6:01 AM MST
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  • 5835
    I am totally sexist. My partner has to be a female. NO SUBSTITUTES!

    If a woman is bigger than I am, there is no possibility of a relationship. Most of my grade school teachers were big women, and I just don't like to be near any woman who reminds me of one of them. I would rather be lonely. That's pretty bad, because small women are rather rare.
      February 11, 2017 2:56 PM MST
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  • 53509
    That doesn't answer the question at all!

    Lol.
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      February 11, 2017 4:00 PM MST
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  • 5835
    Well! I can't help it if you asked the wrong question!
      February 12, 2017 7:39 AM MST
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  • It's not always a good thing to stay locked into your prejudices, Jewels. Women? Well, yeah. But I never realised I had any sex appeal at all till I was approached by a guy in a pub one night. I explained that Mrs Didge didn't let me out to play and he went away, but he was very attractive. >:-)
      February 11, 2017 10:47 PM MST
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  • Being greedy i want both ... and they can be found Co existing ... having said that personality will win every time... great looks might get you the first date.... but only personality will have them ask for the second
      February 11, 2017 3:08 PM MST
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  • You've summed it up, haven't you? The good looks get the first date...
    Thanks, Ozgirl.
      February 11, 2017 10:48 PM MST
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  • 1523
    Both
      February 11, 2017 3:43 PM MST
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  • That would be prefereable, of course. Often we have to make the choice.
      February 11, 2017 4:49 PM MST
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  • 22891


          i think personality is more important
      February 11, 2017 4:30 PM MST
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  • I think you're right, Pearl. I used to work with a woman whose face was less than fortunate. I'm sure people avoided her in the street. But when she smiled, which she did often, it was as though the sun had come out on a cloudy day. She had the happiest personality of anybody I've ever known. I liked her a lot.
      February 11, 2017 5:10 PM MST
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  • "Personality" ... looks can change.

      February 11, 2017 4:30 PM MST
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  • 53509
    And personality can't?
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      February 11, 2017 5:03 PM MST
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