I used to have a username on an unmentionable site called bigfishsmallpond... but aside from that there's no connection with me personally :P I think at times I am a small fish, unnoticeable in my little pond and happy to be so... at other times I am a bigger fish... I can handle that but I think if given a choice I prefer anonymity
Seems to me that usually the big fish/small pond people are a bit more narcissistic. If I have to be a big fish, I'd not want a small pond. Too much pressure, I think. I just want to swim however I wish, without eating others or being eaten!