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Benedict Arnold

Was the news of your first sexual experience met by your parents with joy or disapproval?

When I broke my news to my parents at 42, tney said they wished they had received it at least 10 years earlier.

Posted - April 21, 2018
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  • 6477
    My mum was very cool, very open about sex and that transferred to me, so I never had a problem telling her about anything sexual, indeed I didn't have to, she always just knew.
      April 21, 2018 1:45 PM MDT
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  • Moms always seem to know, don't they? 
      April 21, 2018 2:04 PM MDT
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  • Every person who has responded has mentioned mother's reaction. No one has mentioned father's reaction even though my question specifically mentions "parents". I wonder why. 
      April 22, 2018 3:36 AM MDT
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  • 44652
    My mother didn't care what I did...so I never told her anything.
      April 21, 2018 1:50 PM MDT
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  • Every person who has responded has mentioned mother's reaction. No one has mentioned father's reaction even though my question specifically mentions "parents". I wonder why. 
      April 22, 2018 3:36 AM MDT
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  • 44652
    Dad disappeared when I was six.
      April 22, 2018 7:03 AM MDT
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  • That's sad to hear. 
      April 22, 2018 1:21 PM MDT
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  • 5614
    Met with total disclosure as they revealed the moments of my conception in kind.
      April 21, 2018 4:51 PM MDT
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  • 5354
    Why on earth would I tell my parents about that ?
      April 21, 2018 8:28 PM MDT
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  • 16830
    They didn't get the news of the first time. The first one they heard about was met with disapproval - when I told them she was pregnant. Mum in particular was horrified - staunch Catholic. 
    My aunt Anne's reaction was particularly interesting, when Dad told her. "Hasn't the boy heard of condoms?"
    Aunt Anne is a nun.
      April 21, 2018 8:33 PM MDT
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  • 5354
    I like your aunt Anne :-))
      April 22, 2018 1:36 AM MDT
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  • 16830
    I went to visit her when Dad told me about it.
    "Yes, I have heard of condoms. We broke one. Anyway, what would YOU know about it?"
    She got an innocent look, and said primly, "We get the theory!" 
      April 22, 2018 4:17 AM MDT
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  • Every person who has responded has mentioned mother's reaction. No one has mentioned father's reaction even though my question specifically mentions "parents". I wonder why. 
      April 22, 2018 3:39 AM MDT
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  • 16830
    Dad took it in his stride. He wasn't thrilled, but not as shocked as Mum was.
      April 22, 2018 3:40 AM MDT
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  • In my case they were afraid I might grow to be a lonely frustrated virgin. 
      April 22, 2018 3:46 AM MDT
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  • "I figured that they had already heard about sex, so I never told them."
      April 21, 2018 10:46 PM MDT
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  • 53526

    It's never been a topic of conversation between my mother and myself.
    ~
      April 21, 2018 11:00 PM MDT
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  • Every person who has responded has mentioned mother's reaction. No one has mentioned father's reaction even though my question specifically mentions "parents". I wonder why. 
      April 22, 2018 3:38 AM MDT
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  • 53526

      I had no father figure in my life at that time. My biological father had never been around, and my mother was divorced from my stepfather for many years by then. 
    ~ This post was edited by Randy D at April 22, 2018 12:57 PM MDT
      April 22, 2018 4:30 AM MDT
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  • 6988
    I didn't do anything but my mother accused me of doing something with the girl across the street.  It was years later, and not with that girl.
      April 21, 2018 11:42 PM MDT
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  • Every person who has responded has mentioned mother's reaction. No one has mentioned father's reaction even though my question specifically mentions "parents". I wonder why. 
      April 22, 2018 3:37 AM MDT
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  • 6988
    In my case, father had remarried and I almost never saw him.
      April 22, 2018 6:30 AM MDT
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  • 17614
    Nothing about it was news.  This qualified as a genuine Answerbag question.  Well done! This post was edited by Thriftymaid at April 22, 2018 11:39 PM MDT
      April 22, 2018 7:05 AM MDT
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  • 53526

      What do you mean, " . . . a geniuine Answerbag question"?
    ~
      April 22, 2018 2:25 PM MDT
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