I would not have cried rape. My then stupid self would have told all my friends and then it would have spread like wildfire, so basically the same thing.
"I'm taking the Fifth." Some Things Are Better Left Unsaid - Song Title...
This post was edited by Beans/SilentGeneration at September 5, 2018 10:27 PM MDT
I remember an old Saturday Night Live skit with Bill Murray as a newscaster that spoke of "Mary Kay Letourneau---or Teacher of the Year as referred to by her male students......"
It's hard to go back 61 years to that boy's age when it happened, but that is the sort of stuff that male adolescent dreams are sometimes made of.
(I just read that he had problems with alcoholism because he had two daughters at such a young age.)
I would hope that I could feel this way about it:
December, 1963 The Four Seasons
Oh, what a night Late December back in '63 What a very special time for me As I remember, what a night
Oh, what a night, you know I didn't even know her name But I was never gonna be the same What a lady, what a night Oh, I, I got a funny feelin' when she walked in the room Oh my, as I recall it ended much too soon
Oh what a night, hypnotizin' mesmerizing me She was ev'rything I dreamed she'd be Sweet surrender, what a night I felt a rush like a rollin' ball of thunder Spinnin' my head around n' takin' my body under
Oh, what a night Oh, I, I got a funny feelin' when she walked in the room Oh my, as I recall it ended much too soon
I had an attractive older co-worker who came to me one day and said; "Racer, let's go to bed". (my nickname was Racer) Without delay, I responded; "I'm not sleepy". She tossed up her hands and walked away. (oh yeah, she was married with children and a very large husband who some years later shot her and himself to death!
I've talked to men who have or wanted to be taken advantage of sexually by older women when they were underage.. Some loved it... but I DO still wonder whether there may be damage that perhaps isn't considered.. Like, several of the men went on to have a major obsession with older women... one became submissive - needed women to dominate him... others reversed the role and looked for underage girls to do what had been done to them..