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Do you harbour a secret envy towards one of your parents or children or your partner?

I love my mother intensely  but I'm very envious of her figure. She is fleshy and curvy in all the right places where I'm not but wish I was. At 69 she turns even younger heads, though I know they turn in vain for in her 48 years of marriage she has never been unfaithful to my father despite opportunities and even temptations. 

Posted - March 3, 2019

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  • my husband can eat whatever he wants without gaining weight and i want to choke slam him for it but its not really a secret
      March 3, 2019 2:54 PM MST
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  • 14795
    I think it must be something in our genes ..all my family eat whatever they like but never really gorge in unhealthy foods.
    We don't eat junk food like McDonald or things like Coke and defiantly not any diet drink muck....

    You cannot eat any adulterted highly processed foods of any kind and not expect it to have some effect on you ,if not now but certainly as you age more....

      March 3, 2019 3:18 PM MST
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  • 14795
    My mother has an identical sister.....Both my mother and her sister fell pregrant at roughly the same time....I look so much like my mother we could be sisters....my cousin looks identical to me and her mother to....the likenesses are uncanny....ten years ago it was hard to tell us all apart,now age is showing its hand and it's more easy to tell our parents are older...
    Both my mum and aunt have aged well....they have kept their shape well and both still look amazing with nothing  on and they are in their fifties now...
    :) 

      March 3, 2019 3:04 PM MST
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  • 44660
    So many NJs...so little time. This post was edited by Element 99 at March 3, 2019 5:57 PM MST
      March 3, 2019 3:10 PM MST
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  • 14795
    I'm missing something here....youll have to explain for once...:)
      March 3, 2019 3:25 PM MST
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  • I think he meant "so many NJs ... so little time". 
      March 3, 2019 5:33 PM MST
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  • 14795
    We all have bits of our parents.....my hands and feet are replicas of my mothers as are kind of my sisters...the three boys are more like my dads....personality wise we are all a mixture of our parents in some parts more than others....
    I see my parents in their grand kids as well.. :) 
      March 3, 2019 7:41 PM MST
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  • 44660
    You are all clones. You need to get some Jewish genes in there.
      March 3, 2019 5:58 PM MST
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  • 14795
    Y, U no say that the first time.....lol 
    I did Element and just so you know.....I do wear Jeans Levi's    :)
      March 3, 2019 7:29 PM MST
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  • 44660
    I don't envy anyone.
      March 3, 2019 3:11 PM MST
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  • 4624
    Neither do I.
      March 3, 2019 3:51 PM MST
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  • 5391
    Envy, to me, like hate, is a condition of personal failure. I envy no one. I value my time too much to waste on negative energy. 
      March 3, 2019 4:45 PM MST
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  • 53531

      Nope, none in the least!  If anything, they probably envy me!

    ~
      March 3, 2019 4:58 PM MST
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  • 44660
    Why,,,just cuz you got good grammer?
      March 3, 2019 5:53 PM MST
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  • 1305

    No.

      March 3, 2019 5:12 PM MST
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  • 7795
    I'm afraid so and I'm not proud of it.
      March 3, 2019 5:56 PM MST
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  • 16843
    My (adult) kids - they get more s*x than me ...

      March 3, 2019 9:15 PM MST
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  • 53531

      (more sex than me I do)
      March 4, 2019 5:38 AM MST
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  • 16843
    You didn't play the vid, did you?
      March 8, 2019 6:31 AM MST
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  • 53531

      I can't access links, but that doesn't absolve the grammatical error.
    ---
      March 8, 2019 10:29 PM MST
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  • 46117
    Nope.
      March 8, 2019 11:09 PM MST
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