My friends and i have had fun times for many years.. only until not tool ong ago, I missed a couple hang outs, (but joined in others ) and they did not let it go.. making me feel l... moreMy friends and i have had fun times for many years.. only until not tool ong ago, I missed a couple hang outs, (but joined in others ) and they did not let it go.. making me feel low, and sad, and acting as if its a joke.. I thought to say something, but then thought, what might it truly do? They've done it twice now.. and when I left a social media convo that they were doing it in, they didn't ask why/care. I may think of slowly just distancing myself b/c if I say how low it made me feel they may just defend their snarky remarks as one of them did before. My question is, do I remove their feed from my own? I won't unfriend them b/c that is hard to do, but it is quite difficult for me to see their goings on/fun day , etc every other day.. what would you do ? less
I looked in on a site that some of my friends are members on, and I saw mods and other members attacking new people by calling them socks, and accusing them of being troublemakers.... moreI looked in on a site that some of my friends are members on, and I saw mods and other members attacking new people by calling them socks, and accusing them of being troublemakers.
The only troublemakers I saw, were the mods and other members.
It's the only site I have ever seen the mods act like that.
I would be gone in a flash if I was treated that way on any site.