I never date, and feel so nervous to, because I feel men would see 'through' me to the broken person I feel inside... Yes I am kind, loving, patient, humorous, but I get anxiety, a... moreI never date, and feel so nervous to, because I feel men would see 'through' me to the broken person I feel inside... Yes I am kind, loving, patient, humorous, but I get anxiety, about people, cars, even people behind me :( I think, who would want to be with someone like that? I had a violent, abusive childhood and I'm trying so hard to move past feeling very broken or tainted. Have you ever moved past feeling inadequate, and feeling GOOD about you or who you are??