When you felt you didn't even have a 'self' some days? In my personal case, the reason was trauma, emotional and physical for years; belittling, shaming, cruel words, physical assa... moreWhen you felt you didn't even have a 'self' some days? In my personal case, the reason was trauma, emotional and physical for years; belittling, shaming, cruel words, physical assault/threats... How did you find or realize you might be worth it, to maybe find love or try to date?