Even if it was for a nano second. I did and it bothered me because it was someone I didn't know?It was like, I didn't want to let go...but I did as fast as I could.
They are not good listeners unless it has to do with them. They tune out when you want to share something with them about what you're feeling/thinking/experiencing. Could it be tha... moreThey are not good listeners unless it has to do with them. They tune out when you want to share something with them about what you're feeling/thinking/experiencing. Could it be that their lives are so fraught with drama they cannot escape it even for a little while? Do they not care at all about you or are they just neglectful and self-absorbed?
I may have asked this in past, but it is on my mind today. I have never dated due to severe childhood abuse that led to adulthood. The abuse continued into my teen/adult years, and... moreI may have asked this in past, but it is on my mind today. I have never dated due to severe childhood abuse that led to adulthood. The abuse continued into my teen/adult years, and the effects as well. I have PTSD symptoms and anxiety and while a LOT of the time I identify with that, (being less, or weak b/c of the anxiety, or just those messages for YEARS as a kid) I am also kind, humorous, patient and caring. I think those things is what a guy may enjoy about me, but my subconscious goes to, 'who do u think u are to date? You never have, and you are not like other, confident women'... :( So could one date not really knowing the 'end' of that they want (relationship, marriage etc) ? Could u go out just for that night, just for some fun ....? I fear other guys might want more and might be dating for a serious thing, but I guess if one is upfront with not being 'serious' right away, is it ok and have you ever experienced it/tried it ? less
