That their illness wasn't their fault, and that you have to move on??? I have been through severe abuse, and had just explained that to him and how my mom bullied me, in addi... moreThat their illness wasn't their fault, and that you have to move on??? I have been through severe abuse, and had just explained that to him and how my mom bullied me, in addition to abuse. I know a 'bit' what they meant, that you have to not have it affect you anymore, but sometimes theres no CHOICE in how abuse affects you.. I just could never say to someone who said they had a lot of childhood abuse that they need to 'move on'... what would u do/say to friend who said it?
