What is the most relaxed you've ever been without drugs or alcohol?

Passed out from exhaustion.

Japanese  forest  bathing..

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There was a charter school for teen parents in my office building. During my lunch hour I volunteered in the daycare center there and rocked babies to sleep. I found that no matter how stressful my morning was, rocking a baby to sleep was so relaxing that that all the tension just melted away.

Falling asleep with her head on my shoulder after sex.

     Sitting at the feet of my Spiritual Masters
when lifted out of my mind and Ego
and only being in the presence of
that which is beyond time and space,
beyond the body, being in the presence 
of Absolute Consciousness without
any separation from the oneness of 
that which is eternal.

Thermal Spring with the Doc after our last Triathlon, wine and ___ came after we got out and finished our massages

  The way the question is posed practically assumes that relaxation requires or might require drugs and/or alcohol.  There are drugs and alcohol that do not relax a person, and there are people who have never used drugs and/or alcohol.  He or she cannot compare, so cannot answer you from that perspective. From the time of conception and throughout a person‘s entire life, the are theoretically untold or countless instances of relaxation, but you’re asking for an evaluation or a degree or a measurement of a particular time of being relaxed; how is someone supposed to give an accurate response to something as vague as that?

no relax, only panic 

Always when Ive been intoxicated with love......the rest then is just sleep.. !! ...  Hehe....

When I was about 12 years old, in a field, alone, on a cold overcast late afternoon, ice skating on a small  momentary frozen-water-from-a-previous-rain-that-froze-on-top-of-the-ground quasi-pond.