Many days I don't feel I have a 'self', someone who is meant to be here, I often feel like I should be invisible. I don't have my own place and have never dated, b/c of years of sy... moreMany days I don't feel I have a 'self', someone who is meant to be here, I often feel like I should be invisible. I don't have my own place and have never dated, b/c of years of systematic abuse... I feel if I have those things, somehow I'd be thinking I'm 'better' than someone else. I was taught to believe that even saying my opinion, even a positive one, that I was being 'rebellious'.. it has affected my life negatively. How can one just give themselves permission to have their own space, joy/love, a partner/ spouse etc without feeling they do not deserve it? less
I don't have my own place, I have never dated , I get sooo so nervous of a man rejecting me b/c he'll think I'm 'less' from the abuse I went through for years. I don't even feel I ... moreI don't have my own place, I have never dated , I get sooo so nervous of a man rejecting me b/c he'll think I'm 'less' from the abuse I went through for years. I don't even feel I have a self some days.. if you don't feel you have a self, how can you find a way to find a reasonto nurture your own being, to try to make yourself feel more empowered , happy etc?
I just find it a bit forward, if you are just getting to know someone. Do you give one, or tell them no, or just not reply back? Someone I do enjoyhas written again to me, after re... moreI just find it a bit forward, if you are just getting to know someone. Do you give one, or tell them no, or just not reply back? Someone I do enjoyhas written again to me, after requesting one, but I still don't know if I should respond , or not... most ppl tell me people who want that are looking foryour appearance mainly vs. your heart /mind.
I tried to edit the title, as spellcheck changed my "Morrie", so I'm placing it here. Some people go to a specific place, as in the book I mentioned. Some people just like to stay ... moreI tried to edit the title, as spellcheck changed my "Morrie", so I'm placing it here. Some people go to a specific place, as in the book I mentioned. Some people just like to stay home and do chores, or just work. I like going to the book stores on Tuesdays, except today, I'm not.
If Debate #2 is any indication of what will occur in Debate #3 why bother? Nothing new came up. No new ground was broken. Nothing substantive or valuable was a takeaway for a... more If Debate #2 is any indication of what will occur in Debate #3 why bother? Nothing new came up. No new ground was broken. Nothing substantive or valuable was a takeaway for anyone. It was just more of the same more of the same more of the same attack attack attack attack attack. Did they jump the shark in Debate #2 and it's all over but the shouting? Who is gonna watch #3 when #2 was so abysmally tedious and uninteresting?
