For me it's just being able to get the house a bit tidier, cleaner and more organised.. it's due to the fact I was off work sick for a long time, the summer holidays, (which I usua... moreFor me it's just being able to get the house a bit tidier, cleaner and more organised.. it's due to the fact I was off work sick for a long time, the summer holidays, (which I usually work through but didn't this year) and, of course, lots of hard work.. But I am quite pleased with it all.. I was particularly pleased that I'd been mostly able to keep up with everything as we had an unexpected official visitor.. Son's mess is still out of control but hopefully that the pets are impeccably looked after and everything apart from that is clean and tidy was able to show through. less
Sometimes the unexpected can hit us square between the eyes and lead to a valuable and humbling lesson.. For me it came from a Netflix series.. There was a large amount of co... moreSometimes the unexpected can hit us square between the eyes and lead to a valuable and humbling lesson.. For me it came from a Netflix series.. There was a large amount of corruption leading to injustices.. I really hate injustice, I have a problem with it.. People made, what I consider bad choices.. which betrayed others.. And that never sits comfortably... But I began to question.. if I were in their position.. would I do the same? I'd hope not but can I really know? I can't, I cannot know their life history, their experiences and the things that led them to betray.. I felt very down about all this.. I hate to think that people are so easily corruptable.. where's moral fibre gone.. .where's loyalty.. but if I cannot guarantee that I wouldn't do the same, say to protect my family... and I am as bad as them... then surely I cannot judge others for their betrayals? Their lack of loyalty? I talked to my current counsellor about it.. He said that to betray, to be corruptable.... less