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What do you use as a legal substitute when you feel like hurting someone?

Posted - January 30, 2020
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  • 46117
    I have a filter.  That kind of explains it.  I was thinking about this on the way here, how angry I am at my boss and how I want to make him suffer.  But I never think in terms of maiming him. I want him to be sorry for not respecting how great I am.

    When I put it in those words, I see how stupid I am and how non-powerful my thoughts really are if I laugh at them.   I never can laugh at myself if I am telling myself the truth.  This is me enmeshed in ego and I need to KILL SHARON not my boss.  Kill that aspect of Sharon that identifies with revenge.  IT never satisfies.  IT just angers further.  And if it titilates?  That is beyond my comprehension.  I am more like I AM GONNA DIE BUT YOU WILL DIE FIRST type of mentality.  SO, I don't care the cost to me if you push me beyond normal endurance and say kill a member of my family or something.   I will kill you or die trying.  But I don't get a thrill at ALL over doing that action.  IT is how I am made and I need to stifle that urge.  I am not God and I have no right to take any life unless it is stop someone from doing harm to others.  


    This post was edited by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH at January 31, 2020 5:58 AM MST
      January 30, 2020 12:45 PM MST
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  • 783
    What if it is not out of anger, but it is the only way you can gain pleasure and thrill? How can you satisfy those urges if you constantly crave them? 
      January 30, 2020 12:47 PM MST
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  • 6023
    pretty sure that would make you a psychopath
      January 30, 2020 1:57 PM MST
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  • 783
    No, it makes me a sadist. 
      January 30, 2020 3:23 PM MST
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  • 6023
    Psychopath: a person suffering from chronic mental disorder with abnormal or violent social behavior.
      January 31, 2020 7:36 AM MST
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  • 783
    I don’t have a chronic mental disorder. And just because I want to torture someone to death does not mean I have acted on that. 
      January 31, 2020 7:38 AM MST
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  • 6023
    I don’t have a chronic mental disorder.

    Exactly what someone with a mental disorder would say and think.
    Of course, it's also what someone without a mental disorder would say and think.
    So the sentence is meaningless.
      January 31, 2020 9:01 AM MST
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  • 783
    The point is, one can want to harm people and gain enjoyment from seeing people suffer without being a psychopath or having symptoms of psychopathy (i.e. lack of impulse control, dampened emotions, etc.)
      January 31, 2020 9:24 AM MST
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  • 46117
    Read what I said.  I told you that part.  What about reading what I said? 
      January 30, 2020 3:54 PM MST
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  • 783
    You said that *you* don’t feel pleasure—not about what others who do feel pleasure should do. 
      January 30, 2020 4:25 PM MST
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  • 46117
    That is what confused you?  If I don't feel pleasure, that is all I can speak about.  Not those who do.  I don't.  I can only speak for myself.  How the heck do I know what you need to do?    Besides see a real good shrink and then I still think you would just manipulate the answers.  
      January 30, 2020 4:27 PM MST
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  • 783
    What about an outlet or substitute that simulates the experience? I doubt a shrink could rid me of my fantasies. 
      January 30, 2020 4:35 PM MST
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  • 53519

    (how angry I am at with my boss)
      January 31, 2020 4:43 AM MST
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  • 11143

    I split firewood but I chose the firewood rounds that are really knotty and take a lot  of energy to split. Cheers!

    This post was edited by Nanoose at January 31, 2020 4:44 AM MST
      January 30, 2020 1:10 PM MST
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  • 19937
    I use self-control.
      January 30, 2020 2:32 PM MST
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  • 783
    That doesn’t satiate an urge when nothing else will bring you the same pleasure. There must be an outlet one can use. 
      January 30, 2020 3:24 PM MST
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  • 19937
    I'm not filled with rage, so it isn't difficult for me to control myself.  I'm apparently not like you.
      January 31, 2020 9:32 AM MST
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  • 783
    I’m not filled with rage either. I like people and have no anger whatsoever—it’s all sadism. Causing pain, suffering, and fantasies of murder are all that bring me excitement. 
      January 31, 2020 9:34 AM MST
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  • 19937
    Then you aren't filled with rage, just sick.  
      January 31, 2020 9:47 AM MST
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  • 13395
    I stuck a padlock on a guy's bicycle chain one time as payback for something he did to me. 
      January 30, 2020 2:52 PM MST
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  • 14795
    Can I ask what glue you used ? and could you send me a Link to it here as I get enough Chain Male as it is..:( 
      January 30, 2020 3:06 PM MST
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  • 13395
    Was some kind of finger glue and the link came off when I cleaned up my hands.
      January 30, 2020 3:11 PM MST
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  • 14795
    Most people that get stuck with it always try to palm it of to others that wish to adhere to staying attached to one crank or another....:)D
      January 30, 2020 4:38 PM MST
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  • 46117
    OH MY GOD.  A psychopathic sociopath in our midst!

    CHEERS!
      January 30, 2020 4:12 PM MST
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