I'm 47, and two men seriously interested in me are aged 27 and 69: Men between 42 and 52, the age group I'm seeking, appear to be interested only in casual sex, and tend to woo gir... moreI'm 47, and two men seriously interested in me are aged 27 and 69: Men between 42 and 52, the age group I'm seeking, appear to be interested only in casual sex, and tend to woo girls young enough to be their daughters, and I find myself left high and dry. I wonder if this is a general experience for women in their mid forties everywhere.
I was very badly humiliated by an office colleague with whom I was in a brief relationship, and we had a very nasty breakup. I had resolved never to get intimate with him or any ot... moreI was very badly humiliated by an office colleague with whom I was in a brief relationship, and we had a very nasty breakup. I had resolved never to get intimate with him or any other office colleague. I'm presently in another relationship; but even more than a year afterwards he's ever present in my thoughts. I've never felt this way before. Am I truly in love?
Pretend you didn't see him/ her?Send a friendly hello with the hopes of avoiding awkwardness?Pursue him/ her because they're a good match?Something else? (Please explain.)
I can find reasons for near every relationship I have had. My first boyfriend gave me my first car and made me drive every vehicle his family owned. So I gained experience an... moreI can find reasons for near every relationship I have had. My first boyfriend gave me my first car and made me drive every vehicle his family owned. So I gained experience and confidence. My Dad wouldn't let me drive at all:( So I am grateful for that one reason he was in my life even though he was a horrid cheater!