Among my *many* passions I have here are just a few.. environment, particularly conservation/wildlife, I am very anti child-abuse/animal abuse/abuse of women. I am pass... moreAmong my *many* passions I have here are just a few.. environment, particularly conservation/wildlife, I am very anti child-abuse/animal abuse/abuse of women. I am passionate about education especially education of those who have specific learning difficulties like ADHD, Dyspraxia, Dyselexia etc. I have other passions of course :PAnd you?
I have been researching self-esteem and self-concept and how many people over time have lost sight of their real self.. and this ultimately causes them unhappiness... they go along... moreI have been researching self-esteem and self-concept and how many people over time have lost sight of their real self.. and this ultimately causes them unhappiness... they go along with others, they behave in ways that gain approval and acceptance. This can start in childhood with overly critical parents or peers... They avoid doing or saying things that might cause them to be rejected... and eventually they are no longer able to trust their own instincts or consider their own needs..Interesting and fascinating to me as always human nature.. I never tire of learning about people and how they work... But let it be said, it's probably clear that I wont be one who behaves in ways to gain approval.. doesn't matter to me if I am not popular. I don't seek popularity.. indeed it's arguably as I mentioned above it can be considered an issue we should address, as always pleasing others can lead to us losing ourselves.. I am perhaps feeling cynical today... or slightly so.. after a suggestion or two lately that ... less
And some of the time it can be dependent on our mood.. one day we would find something inane, for instance if our mood is low, or we have had a bad day.. and yet the next day we wo... moreAnd some of the time it can be dependent on our mood.. one day we would find something inane, for instance if our mood is low, or we have had a bad day.. and yet the next day we would be laughing and find it cool and fun... That's people for ya - we are all complex, complicated and driven by our moods, experiences and perceptions...few of us are 100% consistent if we are honest with ourselves...And I don't think inane is an insult either - it's just a description according to one's perception.. for instance.. if someone said to me.. your questions or comments are inane.. I wouldn't care... cos if truth be told we are ALL sometimes capable of posting something inane - and I know for sure I have and do, and probably will continue to do so :P less
I've been crying like crazy and my eyes just look and feel gross now. Why do they puff up like that? I also have a wicked headache and sore throat. Is that why they say laughter is... moreI've been crying like crazy and my eyes just look and feel gross now. Why do they puff up like that? I also have a wicked headache and sore throat. Is that why they say laughter is like medicine? Because crying just makes you feel sick?
Get cozy, friendly, chummy with Putin. Don't be afraid. He is a good guy. Trump says so. But be on guard for Refugees who flee for their lives/Immigrants/Muslims/Potential Terroris... moreGet cozy, friendly, chummy with Putin. Don't be afraid. He is a good guy. Trump says so. But be on guard for Refugees who flee for their lives/Immigrants/Muslims/Potential Terrorists from countries whose people HAVE NEVER HARMED US. Be very afraid. Stay terrified. They are the bad guys. Putin? He's a pussycat/teddy bear/honey bunch. What's to fear from him. Right? Trump knows these things. He wouldn't lie to us. Would he?
I would imagine we all have had that moment we realized we have been gravely betrayed. Can you share? How did you handle the emotion at the time and how did you resolve... moreI would imagine we all have had that moment we realized we have been gravely betrayed. Can you share? How did you handle the emotion at the time and how did you resolve it? I am dealing with a betrayal that involves a sibling. Sometimes it is a fist to the gut when you learn the truth about someone you loved.
I've seen people say that so often on sites like this.... I find it baffling to be honest as I have never felt restricted or that I have to conform.. I see society's norms and expe... moreI've seen people say that so often on sites like this.... I find it baffling to be honest as I have never felt restricted or that I have to conform.. I see society's norms and expectations but see them as just that... expectations and norms.. I don't feel bound by them. I don't feel I would be any less of a person or less valued if I don't conform to these rules.. And to be honest I haven't ever been judged in that way... I found a quote that made me think of this... "Existential living allows the client to live ‘outside the box’ of societal norms, and gives the client freedom to adapt and react to each situation."I find the whole concept of society's rules pretty vague and it doesn't seem to rule me.. What's your experience, do you feel hemmed in or restricted by these so called Society rules? less
