I have a fear of closeness with men, and while I want very much to be close, have a deep bond and real love, I've seen so many who have cheated :/ I guess I'm inquiring to quell my... moreI have a fear of closeness with men, and while I want very much to be close, have a deep bond and real love, I've seen so many who have cheated :/ I guess I'm inquiring to quell my fears (or hope to) by seeing if there are any men here who have had a close friendship and love with their gf or spouse and 'not' strayed...
Just occurred to me.. that if we are thinking of them, for whatever reason then poetic justice means they should also have us invading their thoughts too...
So my friend told me the other day that she saw on her boyfriend's phone that he's been communicating with his ex-gf. They (my friend and her bf) got together in the first place be... moreSo my friend told me the other day that she saw on her boyfriend's phone that he's been communicating with his ex-gf. They (my friend and her bf) got together in the first place because he cheated on his gf with her, while she knew full well he was already in a relationship...but that's a long story so I'll keep it moving.So she basically asked me if she's over-reacting by not being comfortable with the fact that her bf still texts his ex. I don't know what to say since there's not a whole lot of info to go off; I don't know how long they've been talking, what they talk about, etc. frankly I know it's not my business. I want to say she's feeling insecure b/c of the way she got in her relationship in the first place, so now she's paranoid that his feelings for the ex may come back (I mean they'd been together for 3 yrs, before he cheated, so...). But I honestly don't know. What are your thoughts? less
