I've had some wonderful thoughts on relationships here, and how to take dating just one step at a time, and not to put pressure on me or anything when seeking love. It has helped m... moreI've had some wonderful thoughts on relationships here, and how to take dating just one step at a time, and not to put pressure on me or anything when seeking love. It has helped me to ease my mind a bit, as I've never dated, and I'm very grateful to ppl of AM for their open thoughts on how a guy should be ok with any abuse I've had in my past ( a lot, as in nearly my whole life). Yet I still find my mind thinking , you have anxiety about many things, who would want to BE or stay with you? I wonder if anyone here has had anxiety affect their life, particularly with dating or love, and how you maybe changed your subconscious to believing you were somehow Ok and a match for someone? less
I've never dated and it has really become a sad topic for me, I cry I feel so low, and the main reason I've declined dates is because of fear; that they'd find out how much abuse I... moreI've never dated and it has really become a sad topic for me, I cry I feel so low, and the main reason I've declined dates is because of fear; that they'd find out how much abuse I've been through and ditch me. Also that I feel i'd GET anxiety while out too :/ I'm trying so hard to overcome this b/c I know I'm good , kind, loving, yet my subconscious CLINGS to that fear when a guy asks me out ... would it be fine or hav eyou ever dated JUST for that night of relaxation or fun? Not having to put pressure on things or yourself to 'be' something or have it 'go ' somewhere.. I think I get very stuck in that; and I just want something fun.. but is anyone out there NOT searching for a soul mate, or serious relationship? less
I'm a guy in my 30s who is single. I like most music but rap/hip hop, classical, and lite jazz. I like comedy, action, scifi/fantasy, and some horror and mystery books/... moreI'm a guy in my 30s who is single. I like most music but rap/hip hop, classical, and lite jazz. I like comedy, action, scifi/fantasy, and some horror and mystery books/tv/movies. I also like wearing unused plastic garbage, trash, bin bag/liners as clothing in private. I'm a cool guy once you get to know me. so What do you think.
Sometimes referred to as "hen picked". If you see a woman with a man it is often to make her more desirable to YOU. So do not be dismayed. Just some free dating advice ;)
