I have had a lot of issues in trusting men and dating.. I want to find love and joy VERY much but keep identifying with my subconscious of being 'less' or not worth dating (b/c of ... moreI have had a lot of issues in trusting men and dating.. I want to find love and joy VERY much but keep identifying with my subconscious of being 'less' or not worth dating (b/c of anxiety and abuse). I get so nervous that the guy will feel my lack of confidence or learn of my anxiety and ditch me :/ How can I not look to 'future' with a guy and scare myself, and just treat dating as FUN?? Do you have any certain mind set when it comes to love or dating?