A girl from a special needs children's home I volunteer at just gave me a leather headband that she made by hand. It's a basket weave design with little flowers painted on it. She'... moreA girl from a special needs children's home I volunteer at just gave me a leather headband that she made by hand. It's a basket weave design with little flowers painted on it. She's incredibly gifted! She told me I needed a crown because I was as pretty and as nice as a princess. It was soo touching and sweet! It melted my heart when she gave it to me! I may never take it off!
Do you aim to just have a fun night, with low expectations? This is what I'd like to achieve, but still get SO nervous and decline dates, b/c I fear the future; if they like me eno... moreDo you aim to just have a fun night, with low expectations? This is what I'd like to achieve, but still get SO nervous and decline dates, b/c I fear the future; if they like me enough, will they just ditch me etc. :/ Any views on dating welcome ....
I know in theory, it should be fun, light, relaxed. I've never dated because I feel unworthy of mens' time, and like they'd sense the anxiety I've had b/c of abuse I've endured als... moreI know in theory, it should be fun, light, relaxed. I've never dated because I feel unworthy of mens' time, and like they'd sense the anxiety I've had b/c of abuse I've endured also. I get so so nervous, that they'd feel like, why is she dating? However its ' strange; I'm kind, humorous, giving, loving and compassionate, but I don't think of those things when contemplating actually going OUT with a guy and just dating for fun. I just think of how I 'might' get very nervous which amps my anxiety already, and I decline :( How could one just truly feel light and relaxed?? Do you have any special tactic >? less
I thought that now that I have a boyfriend who has a lot of friends, this is perfect. I never wanted someone who ignored his friends for me. Unfortunately my boyfriend is on the op... moreI thought that now that I have a boyfriend who has a lot of friends, this is perfect. I never wanted someone who ignored his friends for me. Unfortunately my boyfriend is on the opposite site of the spectrum and is probably always with at least one of his friends. This creates for very little alone time. Not sure how to deal. I don't want him to think I don't like his friends, but I do want to spend more time with him without them always around.
