That their illness wasn't their fault, and that you have to move on??? I have been through severe abuse, and had just explained that to him and how my mom bullied me, in addi... moreThat their illness wasn't their fault, and that you have to move on??? I have been through severe abuse, and had just explained that to him and how my mom bullied me, in addition to abuse. I know a 'bit' what they meant, that you have to not have it affect you anymore, but sometimes theres no CHOICE in how abuse affects you.. I just could never say to someone who said they had a lot of childhood abuse that they need to 'move on'... what would u do/say to friend who said it?
I have a friend in which i've told a certain story, two times, and they have not said much of anything about it (online). It is a very personal story with negative things that happ... moreI have a friend in which i've told a certain story, two times, and they have not said much of anything about it (online). It is a very personal story with negative things that happened to me. I responded to their negative reminiscing /past story, but they didn't really say much of mine.. I felt hurt. It was about me having physical and mental abuse. It wasn't a light topic. Do you just let it go when a friend says nothing? Were they just too nervous to say anything ? I jsut feel if a friend tells me something that makes THEM feel so sad, I couldn't not say ANY thing :/ How do you feel? less
