I've lived in the same area for almost 5 yrs, i cant find someone to so much as have a cup of coffee with, other places ive lived at i couldnt get away from people, for som... more I've lived in the same area for almost 5 yrs, i cant find someone to so much as have a cup of coffee with, other places ive lived at i couldnt get away from people, for some reason people wont hang out with me. not sure why but i cant make them. even in church people wont even so much as sit with me and it dont even matter what church i go to, if i switch churches i get the same thing somewhere else and yes i do shower so thats not it. I dont know if its cause im short, 4ft5 and people just dont think of me as an adult or what. its just diappointing to never have anyone to hang out with, invite you nowheres, etc., not even on my birthday which is coming up soon, i know noone will invite me over and i cant even go nowheres that day cause its sunday and buses dont run.
Im just tired of living like this and wondered if i should get a pet. any suggestions? ive thought of asking people to do stuff with them but i dont want to force them if theyre not interested. my apt building will allow pets as lon... less
I am in early 30's , never dated or had partner /bf etc. I feel so utterly lonely most days, b/c I've never had that intimate touch or close bond with a man. I went through years o... moreI am in early 30's , never dated or had partner /bf etc. I feel so utterly lonely most days, b/c I've never had that intimate touch or close bond with a man. I went through years of domestic violence and cruel behavior /abuse from parents for years, and it led me to truly believe, I am nothing, and not worth someone's heart, mind, or time. I am trying to challenge this framework that has been my mind , but if I do try to finally go find love, and really think, 'Life is short, so short, maybe I can just say HELL to all the awful anxiety I've had w/men or dating and just try' is that like trying to "get" love in a way? I hear ppl say you need to know what you want and WHO you are (two things that have not been on my radar at ALL in my life) and go get what you like or want- that life is short, and to enjoy. But is this like trying to simply 'get' affection (which I've heard over and over is NOT what you want to do )before our lives get into older years? Or am I overthinking... I am one who has never had love and i... less
I've been in one for two years, and it's likely to remain that way as neither of us is willing to move to the other's, both for genuine, valid reasons. The strain is becoming quite... moreI've been in one for two years, and it's likely to remain that way as neither of us is willing to move to the other's, both for genuine, valid reasons. The strain is becoming quite palpable, and I'm not sure how long we can keep this going.
Hi, so I really like this girl in my class, we both take art and are in the same class, she started art and only came to the school that we go too last November, I mean I thought s... moreHi, so I really like this girl in my class, we both take art and are in the same class, she started art and only came to the school that we go too last November, I mean I thought she was really pretty because she is and my feelings towards her developed over time, I mean she is a really sweet girl personality wise and wouldn't hurt anyone. So I don't know what to do, I mean I thought about telling her my feelings but I don't know her that well. I'm only 15 and I have never had a girlfriend before so I'm new to all of this. Please could you guys help me. less
One you hadn't seen/talked to in several years? Was it via FB, or phone? Did you meet up or exchange email /text ? Any experiences welcome; I'm thinking of contacting a friend I ha... moreOne you hadn't seen/talked to in several years? Was it via FB, or phone? Did you meet up or exchange email /text ? Any experiences welcome; I'm thinking of contacting a friend I haven't seen in 23 years...we were very good friends but I am nervous because its' been so long. I wonder if she'd still like me, if we'd still connect .... ty Amuggers
traveling too much but was humorous, passionate, loving, loves the more simple things of life.. or do you seek a partner who wants to be wild, on the go, etc..? I rarely date b/c... moretraveling too much but was humorous, passionate, loving, loves the more simple things of life.. or do you seek a partner who wants to be wild, on the go, etc..? I rarely date b/c I often think men just want someone to do traveling like things (I get anxiety ..) ...
I wish I knew what was best; wait for the 'time' that's right, people say it will 'just happen'.... but what about those that went on sites and tried to get a partner/ gf/bf active... moreI wish I knew what was best; wait for the 'time' that's right, people say it will 'just happen'.... but what about those that went on sites and tried to get a partner/ gf/bf actively and did..? I don't know which works more, or which I should try :(
