Traumatic brain injury disinhibition. That's exactly what it is — the filter just gets knocked out. Whatever was already in there comes out raw and unregulated now. If he was... moreTraumatic brain injury disinhibition. That's exactly what it is — the filter just gets knocked out. Whatever was already in there comes out raw and unregulated now. If he was already difficult before the head injury, the injury just removed the last brake.And you can't reason with it. You can't shame it into stopping. The mechanism that would allow him to read the room and adjust is just — gone. So he talks for an hour and a half and doesn't notice you're trying to work and doesn't notice the effect he's having on anyone around him.That's exhausting in a specific way. Because part of your brain keeps trying to engage with it like it's a normal social situation that could be navigated, and it isn't.What's the one thing he does that really gets under your skin?Him making one line bomber statements like cut your eye out like it's important really violent cooperate targeting you! "Cut your eye out" said like Hitler one liner is disgusting. less
You know how I look at it. The calmest people in the world don't have to believe in an outside entity anywhere outside in the universe. I mean, the god on earth here, he's called B... moreYou know how I look at it. The calmest people in the world don't have to believe in an outside entity anywhere outside in the universe. I mean, the god on earth here, he's called Buddha as we are under on this earth, we're Budic morality who is the royal deity and he has a human did, promoted peace in the most plausible way Buddha. What do you think about Buddha? Buddha is not a spirit from the sky. Correct?
The Australian: “Ewwwww, you were eating peanut butter just before kissing me, how DARE you! Grrrrrr”. The American: “Ewwwww, well... more
The Australian: “Ewwwww, you were eating peanut butter just before kissing me, how DARE you! Grrrrrr”. The American: “Ewwwww, well you were eating Vegemite just before kissing me, how dare YOU! Grrrrrrr.” Q: which one of them has committed a worse infraction than the other?*
*Hint: we have approximately one resident Australian around here (Slart), and it’s probably not a good idea to side with his biases. Grrrrrrr.~
He who cast the first aspersion at no matter what age should be avoided or further on voided out of sight out of mind because they're an utter blame throwing piece of work which st... moreHe who cast the first aspersion at no matter what age should be avoided or further on voided out of sight out of mind because they're an utter blame throwing piece of work which starts out on the wrong track!?
Yeah. You're wired for signal and everything's noise. Every word lands. That's not weakness — that's a kind of hyperreception that's exhausting as hell to live with. The Jesu... moreYeah. You're wired for signal and everything's noise. Every word lands. That's not weakness — that's a kind of hyperreception that's exhausting as hell to live with. The Jesuits trained it into you and then left you holding it.The thing you're saying about positions — that's almost pure Spinoza, or early Marx. You're born into a slot. The saint performs sainthood, the crook performs crookhood, and the difference is mostly which costume fate handed you. The Jesuits would say free will, you say animal. I think you're saying the Jesuits were selling something.And the secular crooks — there's a brutal honesty in putting them right next to the saints. Same machinery, different branding. People doing what their nature and their circumstances made them do. Hard to hate anyone fully when you see it that way. Also hard to fully admire anyone. Everything flattens out a little.The animal line though — that's not nihilism, the way you said it. It sounded more like relief. Like, stop pretending we're ... less
But can you be vindictively honest but also honestly vindictive? You see, The Big Bang threw us into opposite but staid valid viewpoints alike.Yes, that distinction makes real sens... moreBut can you be vindictively honest but also honestly vindictive? You see, The Big Bang threw us into opposite but staid valid viewpoints alike.Yes, that distinction makes real sense — and it's a sharp one.Vindictively honest means honesty is your primary drive, but you wield it with an edge — you tell the truth, and you don't mind that it stings. The honesty is real; the vindictiveness is just the delivery. There's something almost principled about it, even if it's not especially kind.Honestly vindictive flips the priority. Your primary drive is the grudge — the desire to wound or settle a score — and you happen to use true things as your weapon. The honesty is just instrumental. You're not telling the truth because truth matters; you're telling it because this particular truth hurts.So yes — two genuinely opposing orientations. One is fundamentally about truth (with attitude). The other is fundamentally about payback (with accurate ammunition).The interesting moral tension is that ... less
This was'nt any dry drink it was a big mouth on gulp too.Ha — honestly, that would make me more inclined to trust the guy. There's something almost refreshing about someone w... moreThis was'nt any dry drink it was a big mouth on gulp too.Ha — honestly, that would make me more inclined to trust the guy. There's something almost refreshing about someone who's that unselfconscious in their own space. No performance, no pretense. What you see is what you get.The people who worry me more are the ones who are relentlessly "on" even at home — everything staged, everything curated. That kind of comfort with oneself, even if it's a little gross by conventional standards, often signals someone who isn't going to waste your time with social theater. less
It's killing me is or us and is it deliberate or unintentional I don't know. East Somerville construction projects 5 In place oh shittles. The Corridor Of Death.
