Sometimes my anxiety has led me to say no to things with friends, and most friends are fine with it, some recently have been so low to me, making me feel so sad that I didn't atten... moreSometimes my anxiety has led me to say no to things with friends, and most friends are fine with it, some recently have been so low to me, making me feel so sad that I didn't attend a hangout, that I wonder if others share their (if any) anxiety with friends? Also other night was discussing why I do not have my own place currently, from fear/anxiety and feeling a sense of 'No' self... with a friend, (one who typically says, 'try to better yourself' to people).. and debated telling her the awful things that went on in my childhood, so she got a small view of why I'm sometimes different than others, but I hesitated. Would you share things that are very negative with a friend (ex: emotional or physical abuse etc..)? I feel it would be honest to do so, and open, but on another hand, they'd judge me and they certainly have not shared things of such a personal nature with me... any thoughts welcome less
I heard of it today, following a famous Chinese artist named Ai Weiwei on Instagram. He posted some photos of the art of these indigenous people from Nayarit, Mexico. Central weste... moreI heard of it today, following a famous Chinese artist named Ai Weiwei on Instagram. He posted some photos of the art of these indigenous people from Nayarit, Mexico. Central western Mexico. It is mostly beaded work.
If you post a faceless picture of yourself wearing a plastic garbage, trash, bin bag/liner. Any color but clear/see through/transparent ones as clothing. I'll stop talking about ... moreIf you post a faceless picture of yourself wearing a plastic garbage, trash, bin bag/liner. Any color but clear/see through/transparent ones as clothing. I'll stop talking about this topic for a week or two.
Just post a faceless picture of yourself personally wearing a black unused plastic garbage, trash, bin bag/liner. If a lot of people do, then I'll not talk about it for a week. ... moreJust post a faceless picture of yourself personally wearing a black unused plastic garbage, trash, bin bag/liner. If a lot of people do, then I'll not talk about it for a week. During that time I'll ask different types of question on different topics.
Turkish PM (or dictator, if you prefer) Tayyip Erdogan insists there isn't. I agree with him:
https://www.jihadwatch.org/2007/09/turkeys-pm-erdogan-the-term-moderate-islam-is-ugly... moreTurkish PM (or dictator, if you prefer) Tayyip Erdogan insists there isn't. I agree with him:
Ottoman cooler is an ottoman that you rest your feet on, but put your legs down, lean forward, press the latch and lift the lid and it's a little refrigerator just big enough for s... moreOttoman cooler is an ottoman that you rest your feet on, but put your legs down, lean forward, press the latch and lift the lid and it's a little refrigerator just big enough for six bottles or 12 cans of beer!
I'm thinking I need to contact those NASCAR people for some kind of tie-in.
In my bedGo rest your headUpon the bones of a bigger manHe can cover you with rockwoolAnd you can close up like a clam
-From "Rat within the Grain"
... moreIn my bedGo rest your headUpon the bones of a bigger manHe can cover you with rockwoolAnd you can close up like a clam
-From "Rat within the Grain"
The whole song is about the woman closing him out, so I get the closing up like a clam part, but what's the deal with the rockwool?
I'm thinking about becoming an Olympian for the next games in Japan. I figure I will have four years to get ready. I do, however, want to make sure that I medal. What would be a go... moreI'm thinking about becoming an Olympian for the next games in Japan. I figure I will have four years to get ready. I do, however, want to make sure that I medal. What would be a good Olympic sport for a middle age man to learn and master?
A filmmaker whose personal influence and artistic control over a movie are so great that the filmmaker is regarded as the author of the movie. I knew a few. What about you?
I am in early 30's , never dated or had partner /bf etc. I feel so utterly lonely most days, b/c I've never had that intimate touch or close bond with a man. I went through years o... moreI am in early 30's , never dated or had partner /bf etc. I feel so utterly lonely most days, b/c I've never had that intimate touch or close bond with a man. I went through years of domestic violence and cruel behavior /abuse from parents for years, and it led me to truly believe, I am nothing, and not worth someone's heart, mind, or time. I am trying to challenge this framework that has been my mind , but if I do try to finally go find love, and really think, 'Life is short, so short, maybe I can just say HELL to all the awful anxiety I've had w/men or dating and just try' is that like trying to "get" love in a way? I hear ppl say you need to know what you want and WHO you are (two things that have not been on my radar at ALL in my life) and go get what you like or want- that life is short, and to enjoy. But is this like trying to simply 'get' affection (which I've heard over and over is NOT what you want to do )before our lives get into older years? Or am I overthinking... I am one who has never had love and i... less
Recently I was speaking to a supervisor at work who said we need more coworker to coworker "coaching". This means such things as telling a coworker, "You should be wearing a hair ... moreRecently I was speaking to a supervisor at work who said we need more coworker to coworker "coaching". This means such things as telling a coworker, "You should be wearing a hair net." "You should clean that cutting board." I'd maintain that peers, coworkers, should mind their business and leave such concerns to supervisors.
