I am in early 30's , never dated or had partner /bf etc. I feel so utterly lonely most days, b/c I've never had that intimate touch or close bond with a man. I went through years o... moreI am in early 30's , never dated or had partner /bf etc. I feel so utterly lonely most days, b/c I've never had that intimate touch or close bond with a man. I went through years of domestic violence and cruel behavior /abuse from parents for years, and it led me to truly believe, I am nothing, and not worth someone's heart, mind, or time. I am trying to challenge this framework that has been my mind , but if I do try to finally go find love, and really think, 'Life is short, so short, maybe I can just say HELL to all the awful anxiety I've had w/men or dating and just try' is that like trying to "get" love in a way? I hear ppl say you need to know what you want and WHO you are (two things that have not been on my radar at ALL in my life) and go get what you like or want- that life is short, and to enjoy. But is this like trying to simply 'get' affection (which I've heard over and over is NOT what you want to do )before our lives get into older years? Or am I overthinking... I am one who has never had love and i... less
Recently I was speaking to a supervisor at work who said we need more coworker to coworker "coaching". This means such things as telling a coworker, "You should be wearing a hair ... moreRecently I was speaking to a supervisor at work who said we need more coworker to coworker "coaching". This means such things as telling a coworker, "You should be wearing a hair net." "You should clean that cutting board." I'd maintain that peers, coworkers, should mind their business and leave such concerns to supervisors.
Best: simply the feeling of being appreciated and loved. Knowing that it's there, without even the words being said.
Worst: lately, it's feeling helpless when watching someone you... moreBest: simply the feeling of being appreciated and loved. Knowing that it's there, without even the words being said.
Worst: lately, it's feeling helpless when watching someone you care about be in pain. Knowing that nothing you can say or do would take away their hurt, and all you can do is just "be there".
My dog recently learned the word ice-cube. We have been giving him ice cubs because it's been so hot. He crunches them up pretty quickly while his tail wags a mile a minute. I'm a ... moreMy dog recently learned the word ice-cube. We have been giving him ice cubs because it's been so hot. He crunches them up pretty quickly while his tail wags a mile a minute. I'm a little worried it might be hard on his teeth though. Cheers and happy weekend!
I went to the store today to get some stuff with my foodstamps and found out that it wont take those starbucks coffee drinks, the guy that was cashiering told me about it, i... more I went to the store today to get some stuff with my foodstamps and found out that it wont take those starbucks coffee drinks, the guy that was cashiering told me about it, i guess they dont want diabetics drinking it or something like that, i cant call and ask them cause its saturday but i just wondered what else they took out that you cant get with foodstamps anymore. what about sodas? i used to drink them but havent had one in yrs and was curious if they took those out too, anything else? just thought it would be easier for me not to put it in the cart to save time later than waste time having to put stuff back so i wondered what else you cant buy with them less
